Negative feedback can make us bitter or better.

दीपो भक्षयते ध्वान्तं कज्जलं च प्रसूयते।

यदन्नं भक्षयेन्नित्यं जायते तादृशी प्रजा॥ 

Meaning - The lamp consumes darkness and produces dark soot.Similarly, what food we eat affects what we produce

Thus what words do we listen affects our outcomes and personality simultaneously. 

As Advice makes the paths for the success whereas appreciation gives the strength to reach out there and criticism reduces the confidence. 

Scientists Jagadish Chandra Bose Experiment?

This exceptional man was a physicist, botanist and a pioneer in radio science. He conducted experiments to prove plants feel heat, cold, light, noise, happiness and pain. His instrument, the Crescograph can measure plant growth. A renowned experiment conducted by Bose at the Royal Society of London in 1901 demonstrated that just like humans, plants also have feelings. He placed a plant in a vessel containing bromide solution, which is poisonous. He appreciated one plant and cursed the other one. Using his instrument, he showed on a screen how the plant responded to the poison. 

But always positive feedback is not miraculous, the best way is to admire the best part and highlighting the areas of improvement. As knowledge is proud that it knows so much and wisdom is humble that it knows no more. Always striving on improvements builds prudential personality. Sometimes, appreciation develops pampering that calls for support always and halts the growth of risk taking ability just like our children, if they are only admired and adorned with the jewels of goodness then they never be awared of the sourness of criticism and as life is not bed of roses ever, at that particular span, it may prove wanton to the children. 

Why is negative feedback better than positive feedback when succeeding at life? 

# If we are keep on doing something right, we think none can beat us and arrogance might evolves to our personality. And certainly anyone could beat us. This stumble is tough to manage either we stand or fall very badly.

 Negative feedback is that critical analysis that enables us to search those flaws in our work that we are too blind to see when you are winning all the time. Building of ego and self obsession might be the results. 

Criticism helps us to find the great qualities among the people surrounds us. Might the other person is more sincere and structured and wisdom focus to learn and relearn the subjects we would like to be an expert. " Jalo mat reesh kro " don't be jealous to the better people but tries to learn and follow their footsteps. Class subjects are also learned and revised by teachers to us. Similarly, taking negative feedback with an open mind and working on them with the surrounding good people are the cup of tea for the personalites who have decided to grow and evolve.

Then, interospection is the best weapon when you are winning. Retrospection is important when you are loosing. Everyone analyzes their defeat automatically and fabrication of excuses and blaming initiates. Rather than improvements on Negative feedback, our entire emphasis diverting to find the flaws who helped to meet our areas of improvement that genuinely we should work on.

 Negative feedback is that analysis when you are successful - Humility is the best accessories that we can add on. While our success, it is important to stay calm, humble with hunger of enlightening wisdom. Raja Harishchandra, being at the position of King, consistently worked for the betterment of his own personality, his family and his public, even after facing much of turmoil and unfair situations. 

Negative feedback crowd out positive feedback that might make a person more bitter - it's proven fact that mothers cooked food is delicious because of love and care because of her positive mood. And a newly bride trying for a recipe if met with negative feedback, changes are less of getting good taste. Criticism blocks the roots of growth and single liner motivation can bring the shinning results. Kota case studies, where students are more often receive criticism and only areas of improvement that digs a big doubt among themselves if nothing positive traits are we possessing and sadly suicide rates are exponentially increasing as humans are finding themselves all alons and lacking the positive surroundings. Several organisations are also conducting nowadays the training sessions that sets the bar of personality development, where positive approach is followed by areas of improvement. The way of conferring negative feedback matters the most. Citing that India is a country of poors, reptiles and traditions and stating India is a nation belongs to huge population who are developing, cultural unification, diversification in wildlife and nature, where beautiful traditions are followed, makes an impactful difference. 

Conclusion - 

Pledge to make our surroundings more growing, flexible, open mind and positive. Acknowledging of your faults and efforts to improve the same is the true sense of living. Classroom Education must imbibe the traits of admitting the mistakes and more thrilling to rectify the same, instead of conceiving our mistakes out of fear. As no one is perfect, it's the consistency of improving with every passing day makes us a better version of ourselves. Negative feedback if taken positively does miracles whereas if taken in negative sense, it's the worst manner can easily destroy any person.

Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice.

Regards

Bhawna Kapil